So I finally caught y’all up on my summer adventures, but I realized that I haven’t actually written anything about what is going on now that I’m back in my own house for more than 2 sleeps at a time. Then I realized that I probably haven’t written anything because I really haven’t DONE anything. July has seemed pretty dry compared to the whirlwind that was June. I’ve actually been bored a lot. And I don’t get bored very easily. Which is good, because when I’m bored, I start to feel hot and sweaty and it seems to be too much effort to even lift a limb and all motivation to do absolutely anything suddenly disappears and I end up falling asleep on the couch for hours at a time. Even cooking becomes too much of a bother, and some days I just don’t eat anything at all until night time when I realize how weak I feel and scarf down a piece of bread. I’m trying to tell myself to enjoy the peace and quiet and times of rest though, because I know that when school starts, I will be longing for these days of freedom, even if they do seem boring from time to time.
Here are some July things I’ve done that I deem more interesting than taking a nap and eating bread.
1. The guitar that I’ve had for the past 4 years got repossessed (it wasn’t mine to begin with, so no big deal). So I actually bought myself a secondhand guitar from someone leaving town. And I LOVE it. I’ve been practicing lots, which is good for me. I also bought a secondhand Kindle and I’ve already downloaded tons of books. When I was little, I was a voracious reader. But it’s hard/expensive to get books in English here, and naturally, when you’re an adult with adult responsibilities, you find that your leisure time is less than what it was when you were, say, 8. But not this summer! I have read a TON, which I am excited about!
2. Cooking is a lot of work. Especially for one person. And it is hot out. But I can tolerate baking. And there is a store near my house that sells fresh strawberries now! I think I have had strawberry shortcake with dinner 3 out of the last 4 nights. And by “with dinner”, I actually mean “for dinner”.
3. I’m currently baking another batch of shortcake for breakfast tomorrow because I’m spending all day with Muslim friends. Those two things have no apparent correlation, so let me explain. We’re halfway through Ramadan, the fasting month. Indonesian schools started on the 15th of this month, and I have a friend who teaches in a Kindergarten who has been begging me to come guest teach at her school. Well, since I’m still on holiday, it finally worked out for me to come! I’ll stay the day with her and her family because they are my good friends and I love hanging out with them. And obviously, I’m not going to go into their school/home while they are fasting and be like, “Oh, let me chug this refreshing glass of ice water right in front of you, and oh, this fried chicken is absolutely divine!” So tomorrow, for the first time, I’m fasting for Ramadan. Which means waking up at 4 AM to eat breakfast before the first light of day. And I tell you what, if I’m waking up at 4 AM to eat breakfast, it better be the best breakfast you ever imagined. Hence the strawberry shortcake. Also, I’m making granola and I bought kiwis and orange juice and milk. This is momentous because I rarely even eat breakfast. This is a big jump for me. And just for the record, I have every intention of going back to sleep after I eat. Until I need to leave at 7.
4. Ironically, this month, the holy month, sees the greatest spike in crime all year round. Because at the end of Ramadan comes Lebaran – a time of feasting and partying and family time. And lots of people feel pressure to throw really spectacular parties, so they spend much of this month stealing stuff in order to fund their celebrations. Oddly enough, several cows have been stolen. In one neighborhood in particular, at least one cow has been stolen every night for the past 2 weeks. This is a BIG deal in a society where the cost of a cow is approximately equivalent to an entire year’s salary. Also, many dogs have been stolen. From white people. Two more were stolen last Saturday. I don’t know the owners, but a friend of theirs works with me and, knowing that I have connections in the Indonesian community, asked me to help out. So I’ve spent the past few days trying to spread the word and get information, but to no avail. Every 5 days, there is a big animal market open in the next town. Today was the day, so I finally got to meet the dog owners this morning as we travelled together to search the market in a last ditch effort to find the dogs. We had no luck, but the husband did drink a glass of cobra blood, much to his wife’s chagrin. So at least it was a good adventure. ALSO as we talked, we discovered that the wife is from Shipshewana! And mom and dad will get a kick out of this – she grew up going to church with the Mishlers. Yes, THEE Mishlers. Also, they bought their wedding rings at the flea market. Her husband is from California and thinks that Indiana is the most ridiculous po-dunk little place. So it was fun talking to them and getting to know them a little bit even if we didn’t actually find their dogs.
5. Pretty sure they are now the closest thing I have to white friends in this town. I have spoken English maybe only 20% of the time this month. And that has only occurred in the off chance that I run into a white person wandering around. Otherwise, it’s speaking English with English speaking Indonesian friends. I am totally OK with that. A lot of times, I am more comfortable around Indonesians than I am around white people anyways. But there are some downfalls. For starters, my English is terrible and I’ve forgotten a lot of it. Also, I miss having someone around who gets my culture.
6. A new neighbor is coming on Sunday! I get to go to the airport to pick her up. She’s a marine biologist, which is pretty cool. The jury is still out on whether or not we’ll be BFFs. We’ve messaged back and forth several times, and she always seems SO SERIOUS. All business, that one. Maybe when she gets here, I’ll uncover her sparkling wit and sense of humor. If not, I am going to be an awkward mess, because that is how I am around people who can’t banter and joke. PS – Dear marine biologist, if you ever read this in the future, I hope that we are BFFs by now. And if we’re not, then please forgive me for being an awkward mess. It’s me, not you. Really. I was homeschooled.
7. I have watched a lot of movies and knitted some things. I even went to bed at 8:30 one night last week. I am getting old.
8. I have done some photo shoots for people. Photos for prayer cards and Facebook profiles and things like that. I know some cool locations for shoots around and outside of town. At one village location, a kindhearted man stopped to ask if we were lost and needed help finding our way back to town. Bahaha… Then he invited us to come to his orphanage/mosque and teach English. I was IN a photo shoot this month too! I modeled 2 different wedding dresses for a wedding location promo at a local hotel. It was pretty fun, and I discovered a secret love for corsets, as I wore one for 7 hours. However, when those things are on as tight as they go, it is extremely difficult to eat lunch, let me tell you.
9. I’ve actually worked in my classroom a few times. But I think I’ve spent more cumulative hours in my friend’s kindergarten classroom. Before school started for them, I was over there a few times making decorations and games and helping set up. I really should start preparing my own classroom. But I just don’t feel ready yet. I’m trying to hold onto the last few drops of summer vacation.
Two more weeks.